Comments for Rememberella http://rememberella.wordpress.com The urge to archive Sun, 25 Jan 2009 11:29:06 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on by Bea http://rememberella.wordpress.com/2009/01/22/69/#comment-375 Bea Sun, 25 Jan 2009 11:29:06 +0000 http://rememberella.wordpress.com/?p=69#comment-375 It's just nice to know you have options. That you can make your own decisions for yourself. Bea It’s just nice to know you have options. That you can make your own decisions for yourself.

Bea

]]> Comment on by Lyrehca http://rememberella.wordpress.com/2009/01/22/69/#comment-374 Lyrehca Sun, 25 Jan 2009 07:37:12 +0000 http://rememberella.wordpress.com/?p=69#comment-374 I hear you entirely. I hear you entirely.

]]> Comment on by My Reality http://rememberella.wordpress.com/2009/01/22/69/#comment-373 My Reality Fri, 23 Jan 2009 02:40:10 +0000 http://rememberella.wordpress.com/?p=69#comment-373 I have some super fertile friends; some have had their THIRD while we are still trying for our first. Sometimes hearing the news puts a little more salt on an open wound. I wonder if the wound ever full scabs over? I have some super fertile friends; some have had their THIRD while we are still trying for our first.

Sometimes hearing the news puts a little more salt on an open wound. I wonder if the wound ever full scabs over?

]]> Comment on by Lut C. http://rememberella.wordpress.com/2009/01/22/69/#comment-372 Lut C. Thu, 22 Jan 2009 19:30:26 +0000 http://rememberella.wordpress.com/?p=69#comment-372 It might be a classic post, but there's a reason for it. When it's raining PG announcements, who can't use a sympathetic pat on the shoulder? Mourning until menopause?! That's still a while to go (I hope). It might be a classic post, but there’s a reason for it. When it’s raining PG announcements, who can’t use a sympathetic pat on the shoulder?

Mourning until menopause?! That’s still a while to go (I hope).

]]> Comment on by Erin http://rememberella.wordpress.com/2009/01/22/69/#comment-371 Erin Thu, 22 Jan 2009 16:56:46 +0000 http://rememberella.wordpress.com/?p=69#comment-371 Even with both of mine now, with as completely OK as I am with having adopted our second, with still not being entirely sure that I'm ready to throw our hats into the IVF ring--I still think the same thing as you. Sometimes it's not so hard and other times? It completely bites not to even have the option. I think it's harder to have your choices taken away than it is to make the choice not to use them. Even with both of mine now, with as completely OK as I am with having adopted our second, with still not being entirely sure that I’m ready to throw our hats into the IVF ring–I still think the same thing as you. Sometimes it’s not so hard and other times? It completely bites not to even have the option. I think it’s harder to have your choices taken away than it is to make the choice not to use them.

]]> Comment on by Serenity http://rememberella.wordpress.com/2009/01/22/69/#comment-370 Serenity Thu, 22 Jan 2009 15:26:15 +0000 http://rememberella.wordpress.com/?p=69#comment-370 I'm not even close to a place where I'm ready to have another. Not sure if and when I WILL be in that place. And yet? I think the same thing. "How fucking nice for you." You're not alone. xx I’m not even close to a place where I’m ready to have another. Not sure if and when I WILL be in that place.

And yet? I think the same thing. “How fucking nice for you.”

You’re not alone.

xx

]]> Comment on by Lassie http://rememberella.wordpress.com/2009/01/22/69/#comment-369 Lassie Thu, 22 Jan 2009 14:20:38 +0000 http://rememberella.wordpress.com/?p=69#comment-369 During the throes of my infertility I heard (read?) that IF women stop mourning their fertility after menopause. If that is the case, I welcome a properly timed hot flash (not the premature ones my ivf cocktails induced.) Thinking of you, knowing just how you feel. During the throes of my infertility I heard (read?) that IF women stop mourning their fertility after menopause. If that is the case, I welcome a properly timed hot flash (not the premature ones my ivf cocktails induced.)

Thinking of you, knowing just how you feel.

]]> Comment on by thalia http://rememberella.wordpress.com/2009/01/05/66/#comment-368 thalia Wed, 14 Jan 2009 08:45:00 +0000 http://rememberella.wordpress.com/?p=66#comment-368 I hope you had a wonderful reunion with your boys. I've left Pob for up to 72 hours, and it's been ok - very tough on me but she's been ok. In March I will probably go away for 6 days and I'm very nervous about it, but keeping fingers crossed I can cope ok. Hope your new year is startign well. I hope you had a wonderful reunion with your boys. I’ve left Pob for up to 72 hours, and it’s been ok – very tough on me but she’s been ok. In March I will probably go away for 6 days and I’m very nervous about it, but keeping fingers crossed I can cope ok.

Hope your new year is startign well.

]]> Comment on by beagle http://rememberella.wordpress.com/2009/01/05/66/#comment-367 beagle Tue, 06 Jan 2009 01:28:25 +0000 http://rememberella.wordpress.com/?p=66#comment-367 I hope it was restorative. We all need that sometimes. Your men, little and big will be better for their time together. I think not having mommy to fall back on makes the daddy and the baby relate differently than when we are there with them both. God, I hope that made sense. I need more sleep. I hope it was restorative. We all need that sometimes.

Your men, little and big will be better for their time together. I think not having mommy to fall back on makes the daddy and the baby relate differently than when we are there with them both.

God, I hope that made sense. I need more sleep.

]]> Comment on by My Reality http://rememberella.wordpress.com/2009/01/05/66/#comment-366 My Reality Mon, 05 Jan 2009 23:58:06 +0000 http://rememberella.wordpress.com/?p=66#comment-366 I think your time away from J will be good for both of you. He will learn that mama always comes back. And you will have had a chance to recharge. Happy New Year! I think your time away from J will be good for both of you. He will learn that mama always comes back. And you will have had a chance to recharge.

Happy New Year!

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